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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.

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Your ex has someone new? So?! She still is emotionally attached to you!

Your ex has someone new? So?! She still is emotionally attached to you!

A big mistake to make with a turned off woman — your ex included — is to assume that a guy who she’s dating is dangerous competition. This is often not true because history matters. The more history you have, the more emotional bonds you established with her. Intimate attachments are hard to break and they also need…

No Contact MANIFESTATION: HOW TO Manifest your Ex Back like a Boss?

No Contact MANIFESTATION: HOW TO Manifest your Ex Back like a Boss?

Let’s talk about manifestation and the law of attraction to get an ex back during no contact. No contact law of attraction! Does it make sense to try to manifest your ex back? It is a very common question that men have who start learning about personal growth, self-development, and manifestation. But it’s dangerous to…

No Contact Rule after MUTUAL Breakup? Should I TEXT my Ex GF?

No Contact Rule after MUTUAL Breakup? Should I TEXT my Ex GF?

Let’s talk about mutual breakups. What happens if both of you agree to break up? In my opinion, there’s no such thing as a mutual breakup. Sure, you can both agree to break up, but typically it’s one person who comes up with the idea to break up. So even if you agreed to the breakup…

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Why doesn’t my ex MISS ME YET? No Contact Rule DOESN’T Work?!

Why doesn’t my ex MISS ME YET? No Contact Rule DOESN’T Work?!

Let’s talk about the right no contact mindset. You gotta positive. If you do no contact, and you are doing everything right, you’re not begging, you’re not chasing her, you’re not sending her messages, you’re doing your own stuff, maybe you’re going to the gym or something like that… All of these things are amazing! But…

Why you should avoid women who get overly attached too quickly!

Why you should avoid women who get overly attached too quickly!

Have you ever dated a woman who’s batshit crazy?! You know, the type of woman who’s incredibly clingy and always jealous? You shouldn’t date this kind of woman! Why? Because a woman like this doesn’t date consciously. If a woman gets jealous and way too attached way too fast, then it means that she has…

I DISAPPOINTED my Girlfriend — When your Girlfriend Needs ATTENTION!

I DISAPPOINTED my Girlfriend — When your Girlfriend Needs ATTENTION!

Let’s talk about what you do if your girlfriend needs some attention if you pissed her off.,When you screwed up, you made a mistake, you hurt her feelings, or you broke one of your promises… Then you try to apologize for it and you thought “Well, I apologized, so what else can I do?”…

Don’t chase a woman & no begging and pleading after breakup screwups!

Don’t chase a woman & no begging and pleading after breakup screwups!

Have you broken up with your girlfriend or turned off a woman because you made some big mistakes? If she left you, I’m sure you want to prove to her that you are sorry and will never repeat the same mistake again. But chasing a woman and showing her over and over that you want…

No Contact Rule and BIRTHDAYS? Wishing an Ex Happy Birthday is BAD!

No Contact Rule and BIRTHDAYS? Wishing an Ex Happy Birthday is BAD!

Let’s talk about the reality that if you message your ex for any reason, for a birthday, for Christmas, any occasion… It always backfires. It almost never works. There could be some very rare scenario where messaging your ex because of her birthday might work because she really missed you like crazy, and she has…

Winning with women on dating apps! Get more matches on Tinder & Bumble!

Winning with women on dating apps! Get more matches on Tinder & Bumble!

Are you frustrated that the number of your matches with beautiful women on dating apps is depressingly low?! You’re not alone! Dating apps are great for women but they suck for men! The algorithms of dating apps favor a tiny percentage of highly attractive men who literally could be professional models. If you want to win…

No Contact Rule after a FIGHT — When she breaks up with you SUDDENLY?!

No Contact Rule after a FIGHT — When she breaks up with you SUDDENLY?!

Let’s talk about what to do if a girlfriend breaks up too quickly, very impulsively. What should you do? So I got a message from a guy and I don’t really like the way that his ex broke up with him. He wants her back, understandable, but let’s see what is my advice for him…

Why you’re wanting an ex back & why you shouldn’t chase your ex!

Why you’re wanting an ex back & why you shouldn’t chase your ex!

Do you endlessly watch videos about getting an ex-girlfriend back and binge videos like “Five signs she misses you!” and other panic-inducing videos that suggest 10 reasons why today is the day that your ex will be back? If yes, chances are that your ex broke up without giving you any closure. Humans are hardwired for…

Women who are DAMAGED GOODS — Leaving a TOXIC Woman

Women who are DAMAGED GOODS — Leaving a TOXIC Woman

Let’s talk about having the confidence to say no to a woman. To leave a woman behind who’s toxic. Who always gets upset. Who always gets jealous. Who always finds reasons why she wants to start a fight. It’s very difficult when you are with a woman like this who always causes fights. Maybe you’re…

What to do if your ex girlfriend blocks you for no reason?! No contact rule advice!

What to do if your ex girlfriend blocks you for no reason?! No contact rule advice!

Has your ex-girlfriend blocked you completely out of nowhere and you’re wondering what you should do? The answer is simple: Do nothing and do not worry! If you haven’t done anything to deliberately hurt or provoke your ex, then she probably blocked you impulsively because she couldn’t deal with the pain of the breakup…

Encouragement to NOT Contact My Ex! A No Contact Rule Success Story!

Encouragement to NOT Contact My Ex! A No Contact Rule Success Story!

Let’s do something different! Encouragement to keep up no contact. Do not talk to your ex. Don’t reach out to her. I have a success story or almost a success story of a guy who really screwed up so bad and it is a good sign that if you make some progress with your ex…

When She Says I’M FINE — Men Will NEVER Understand Women

When She Says I’M FINE — Men Will NEVER Understand Women

Let’s talk about a very cliche topic: When you’re not sure what the heck is actually going on with my girlfriend?! Why is she mad?! Maybe you’ve heard of this cliche line… She says everything is fine but then it turns out nothing is fine! You can’t make sense of what is going on…

Dating confidence is about surviving risks! How to deal with rejection!

Dating confidence is about surviving risks! How to deal with rejection!

If you still struggle with talking to beautiful women and approaching your dream woman, then it might be because you lack an important ingredient for dating success: The survival of a risk. I bet you are afraid to approach and meet attractive women because it poses a risk. Unfortunately, confidence is the result of surviving risks…

She Said WE NEED TO TALK — Does She Want to Leave Me?

She Said WE NEED TO TALK — Does She Want to Leave Me?

Let’s talk about when is the time to end the relationship? Should you end the relationship? Is your relationship actually on bad terms or not? And this is also a very nice case study of a guy who started watching my channel very early on when I was very new with my channel…