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Attraction to get an ex back & to secude a woman: Be your best self!

Attraction to get an ex back & to secude a woman: Be your best self!

Wanting an ex back, getting a girl back that you turned off, or dating a brand new woman… It’s all based on the same concept: Attraction. You need to prove that you’re an outstanding man. She wants a king because she sees herself as a queen and she won’t settle for anything less than a…

Will She FORGIVE Me? Using No Contact Rule after I was NEEDY

Will She FORGIVE Me? Using No Contact Rule after I was NEEDY

Let’s talk about no contact, breakups, and earning the forgiveness of your ex-girlfriend, for example, if you have been too insecure before the end of the breakup and this caused problems, and eventually lead to the breakup. Which then makes you fear that she is never going to forgive you, which most of the time…

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The number one sign you are doing on contact wrong! Big no contact mistake!

The number one sign you are doing on contact wrong! Big no contact mistake!

What’s one of the biggest indicators that you’re doing no contact wrong with your ex-girlfriend? It’s overthinking! If you’re constantly thinking about your ex and over-analyzing every single action that you took, are taking, or are going to take in order to win her back, then you have almost no chance to get her back…

How to Handle a Breakup Like a MAN during the No Contact Rule?

How to Handle a Breakup Like a MAN during the No Contact Rule?

Let’s talk about how to handle a breakup like a man and I think one way how men have to treat their breakups is, they have to accept the reality that the breakup is actually happening. A lot of guys, after a breakup, they are in denial. That’s not the right way to go…

How to Get Your Ex Back by Letting Go and Rejecting Them CORRECTLY

How to Get Your Ex Back by Letting Go and Rejecting Them CORRECTLY

Let’s talk about getting an ex back by letting her go and rejecting her to get her back. You might be thinking “Wait what?! Reject your ex?!” and I’m not talking about rejecting her on purpose, and being mean, and saying “No I don’t want you” Some coaches might suggest doing something like this, which is…

What Happens when You Go No Contact with a NARCISSIST EX GF?

What Happens when You Go No Contact with a NARCISSIST EX GF?

Let’s talk about no contact in the context with a woman who’s toxic. More specifically, a woman who’s a narcissist. So if you want your ex back, of course, you’re very anxious. You think you’ve done a lot of things wrong and often you did a lot of things wrong. Everybody plays a part in the…

When a woman flakes on you twice, do this without a second thought!

When a woman flakes on you twice, do this without a second thought!

If a woman has been flaking on you repeatedly and no matter what you do, nothing has worked to gain her attention, then it’s time to dump her and find yourself a queen. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me thrice, she’s got a heart made of ice…

NEVER Break the ‘No Contact’ Rule! EVEN if She’s Dating a New Guy

NEVER Break the ‘No Contact’ Rule! EVEN if She’s Dating a New Guy

Let’s talk about breaking no contact & the harsh truth for everybody is that you should never break no contact! Let’s say, for example, you start a YouTube channel. It takes 6 months at least to get it started. Just restarting again with a new one makes no sense. It’s the same thing with no contact…

‘What is my Ex Thinking During No Contact?’ – BIG No Contact MISTAKE

‘What is my Ex Thinking During No Contact?’ – BIG No Contact MISTAKE

Let’s talk about ex obsession and today I’m gonna share a personal thing. It’s been a long time since I’ve been obsessed with an ex or a woman, but if you’re coming to this channel, of course, you’re probably obsessed with your ex-girlfriend and you want her back. The reality is: Obsession is really fucking awful…

Do THIS to Attract the Woman of YOUR DREAMS — Easy Dating Hacks

Do THIS to Attract the Woman of YOUR DREAMS — Easy Dating Hacks

Let’s talk about attracting highly attractive women. Women who are far from average, and the reality is that it’s really not that difficult. So a lot of us, especially those of us who grow up a little bit more insecure, maybe a little bit anxious, shy, we don’t think that we can talk to these…

Never be her Plan B! Don’t settle for being her backup plan!

Never be her Plan B! Don’t settle for being her backup plan!

One of the biggest dating mistakes men make is deluding themselves that they are making progress with a woman when in reality, the woman has almost no interest in them. When you are dating a woman and she’s not interested in meeting up for a date or keeps on rejecting your attempts to become intimate…

Girl Flakes but KEEPS Texting You?! Avoid this type of girl LIKE THE PEST

Girl Flakes but KEEPS Texting You?! Avoid this type of girl LIKE THE PEST

Let’s talk about flaky women. Toxic women. Women who are hot and cold. And the difficult part about this, of course, is trying to figure out is she toxic? Is she playing games? Or are her excuses why she’s not meeting up with you where she’s flaky, why she’s cold, are all of these excuses valid…

Is your ex an ex for a reason? When to give up on a relationship?

Is your ex an ex for a reason? When to give up on a relationship?

Are exes always an ex or a reason? Most of the time, that phrase is wrong & counterproductive. Sometimes she’s an ex for a reason but it’s not the one you think. It’s a myth that the perfect woman who’s 100% compatible with you is out there. Relationships aren’t about finding a soulmate. They’re about creating one…

No Contact Rule after YOU dump her! Get Her Back after you DUMPED her

No Contact Rule after YOU dump her! Get Her Back after you DUMPED her

In today’s video we’re going to talk about breakup mess-ups. With that I mean when you broke up and it basically was a mistake. And maybe you’ve done it because it was very emotional, the decision. Maybe it was very impulsive. You didn’t think it through and then you realize damn, I made a mistake…

Is it a Rebound OR was she Cheating On Me? Am I Her BACKUP Plan?

Is it a Rebound OR was she Cheating On Me? Am I Her BACKUP Plan?

Today’s today’s topic is a tough pill to swallow. Some might even say it’s a red pill to swallow. Maybe that’s why the background is red but no, actually it’s just because I have a new studio set up and I’m playing around. So today we’re going to talk about rebounds and is an ex…

Are women out of your league?! How to date out of your league?

Are women out of your league?! How to date out of your league?

Do you think you’re not attractive enough and this is why you’re not getting any matches on dating apps? If you think yes, then you gotta challenge your belief system. Are women really out of your league, or do you simply undervalue yourself? No matter what you look like, you are a king and you..

Can you MAKE your ex miss you? Psychology behind No Contact Rule

Can you MAKE your ex miss you? Psychology behind No Contact Rule

In today’s video we’re gonna talk about does no contact work? Does it actually work to make an ex miss you? I have a message from a guy who basically does not believe that no contact works and he’s not doing it right. And I think one of the reasons why he’s not doing it right…