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My ex doesn’t want to talk to me?! Look in the mirror!

My ex doesn’t want to talk to me?! Look in the mirror!

Breakup real talk: No healthy woman is ever going to leave you if she’s happy and in love with you. Most breakups happen either because she was a toxic woman, or because she wasn’t feeling heard, valued, validated, appreciated, and so on. If she wasn’t a she-belongs-to-the-streets level narcissist, then take a look in the mirror…

Availability Heuristic Psychology: Why You DON’T Beg Her To Stay!

Availability Heuristic Psychology: Why You DON’T Beg Her To Stay!

In today’s video, I’m gonna talk about the structure of breakups and why no contact is so effective, because if you don’t do no contact, if you beg all the time, if you plead, if you message your ex very often, then you’re triggering something called the Availability Heuristic. Once you go no contact, your ex…

No Contact FADING EFFECT Bias Explained: WHY No Contact Works

No Contact FADING EFFECT Bias Explained: WHY No Contact Works

Let’s talk about the breakup psychology of the fading affect bias. Maybe you’ve heard about this the phenomenon that we always forget the negative emotions faster than the positive ones. This is the reason why women always come back. This is why women miss you. This is why they reach out to you when you least…

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DUMPER REGRET — Why Exes Come Back after EXHAUSTING their Options

DUMPER REGRET — Why Exes Come Back after EXHAUSTING their Options

When an ex broke up with you, typically she will come back for two reasons: Number one: She can tell that you’ve moved on. Or number two: She’s exhausted all her options. Typically, after a breakup, an ex does not have trust in you, or in the relationship for whatever reason, and then she comes…

How to Know if a Girl is Playing MIND GAMES and only KILLING Time?

How to Know if a Girl is Playing MIND GAMES and only KILLING Time?

Sometimes when you’re dating really hot women, it does feel a little bit like you’re playing with fire. Especially with the very hot women. And that is because they want to see can you handle the fire? Can you handle the heat? They are putting on shit tests, they’re teasing you, they want to see…

What to Do After GETTING DUMPED? NEVER Chase after Being Dumped!

What to Do After GETTING DUMPED? NEVER Chase after Being Dumped!

If you’ve been dumped by an ex or someone that you’ve dated, then chasing her is possibly one of the worst things that you can do. When you love someone you have to give your love as a gift. You can’t force yourself onto a person. You have to give your love as a gift…

When your Ex IGNORES your Texts Do THIS to Re Attract Her

When your Ex IGNORES your Texts Do THIS to Re Attract Her

If your ex is ignoring your messages, the chances are quite high that you’re chasing her too much and she’s not in her feminine. So a woman typically always is in her feminine core. That is her nature. Your nature is masculine nature. Hers is feminine nature. And so if you’re always chasing her…

What to TEXT your ex when she says she NEEDS SPACE

What to TEXT your ex when she says she NEEDS SPACE

We’re gonna talk about what do you do when she needs space? How do you respond to it? It’s about hot and cold behavior. I have a message from a guy and his ex says she needs some space. And ultimately, when an ex says she need

GHOSTED By Her! What to do if she DOESN’T Text Back?

GHOSTED By Her! What to do if she DOESN’T Text Back?

We’re gonna talk about what happens when you are really into a woman, the woman is actually into you, but then she ghosts you. I got a message from a guy who had good chances of getting a really hot woman at his office, but he still had feelings for his ex and that’s why…

How to live a HYPERGAMOUS Life & Date a Girl Out Of Your LEAGUE?

How to live a HYPERGAMOUS Life & Date a Girl Out Of Your LEAGUE?

In this dating advice, we’ll talk about dating incredible women. Women of high status, good looks, good career, good ambitions, intelligent, smart, all the good stuff that you want. If you’ve never heard of the term hypergamy, you are probably wondering what in the world is that? It sounds like a disease. It’s not a disease…

How to stop LOOKING DESPERATE when Approaching Women

How to stop LOOKING DESPERATE when Approaching Women

In this video we’re gonna talk about rejection when you go out in bars, not feeling confident enough. I got a message from a guy who basically is new to a country and he tried to go out and well, it didn’t go too well. So today we’re going to look at well, where does…

Is she USING me?! Is my Ex Girlfriend TESTING me or a Covert NARCISSIST?

Is she USING me?! Is my Ex Girlfriend TESTING me or a Covert NARCISSIST?

Maybe she wants you back. Or maybe she’s something that’s called a covert narcissist. If you don’t know what covert means, covert means essentially secret. So is your ex secretly a narcissist, and she is only using you for attention and for convenience, and it’s just nice to have you around? Or does she really…

No more NICE GUY SYNDROME! Man up and AVOID Friendzone Heartbreak!

No more NICE GUY SYNDROME! Man up and AVOID Friendzone Heartbreak!

So with this dating advice we’re gonna answer the question can you be too nice to a woman? I have a message from a guy who is showcasing that yes you can be too nice with a woman. Even if you meet her on a dating app. He says: “Hey coach, I need your help…

No Contact to FORGET Her: How to get over an ex after she CHEATED on me?

No Contact to FORGET Her: How to get over an ex after she CHEATED on me?

In this dating advice, we’re gonna talk about the no-contact rule and actually the origins of the no contact rule. Most of you probably know it from well, trying to get an ex back. Don’t talk to your ex for a certain limit of time and then she’s going to reach out to you…

No Contact Rule GONE WRONG! How to Make my Ex Think I’m OVER HER?

No Contact Rule GONE WRONG! How to Make my Ex Think I’m OVER HER?

In this dating advice, we’re gonna talk about making an ex jealous and how it often can backfire. I got a message from a guy who tried to make his ex jealous and it didn’t work out at all now she is dating someone else. He says: “Hi coach, I urgently need your help….

Best FRIENDZONE ADVICE for Guys — Say NO to ESCAPE the Friendzone

Best FRIENDZONE ADVICE for Guys — Say NO to ESCAPE the Friendzone

In this video, we’re gonna talk about friendzoning. In particular, what is the reason behind it. I have a scenario here of a guy who’s a good illustration of who’s doing a small few things here and there wrong. He’s being too nice. He’s being too friendly. He’s being too needy. And no woman wants…

Handling REJECTION from Women with a SCARCITY vs ABUNDANCE Mindset

Handling REJECTION from Women with a SCARCITY vs ABUNDANCE Mindset

In this video we’re gonna talk about rejection. And I didn’t think that I would be talking about something personal today, but rejection in a way is essentially just you not getting what you want. So you’re not getting the woman that you want, for example, right? And I have a situation from a guy…

Winning with Women is EASY for the SELF DEVELOPED MASCULINE Man

Winning with Women is EASY for the SELF DEVELOPED MASCULINE Man

In this video we’re gonna look at a bit of a success story of a man. He has read my book and he’s starting to apply some of the things in my book and I just want to talk a little bit about masculinity and how you get success with women once you start working…

No Contact Rule my Ex BLOCKED me! Will my Ex FORGET About Me?

No Contact Rule my Ex BLOCKED me! Will my Ex FORGET About Me?

In this video we’re gonna take about getting an ex back and whether an ex is going to forget you, especially if she has blocked you. So I received a message from a guy from, I believe he’s from India and he has been very, very needy. He has been turning this woman off like crazy…