If the woman you’re in a relationship with always blames all problems on you, then it’s time to evaluate if she’s toxic! Yes, on average, we men lack a lot of communication skills and it’s important you learn how to give a woman what she needs. But if she never takes accountability and always blames every single relationship problem on you, then maybe she’s not right for you. It always takes two to tango!
Even if you are screwing up and she’s mad because of it, it’s also her responsibility to let you know about it in non-confrontational ways. Is she telling you lovingly that you’re not giving her what she needs, or is she only looking for a scapegoat so she doesn’t have to look in the mirror and reflect on her own mistakes?!
Both of you should always take 100% accountability for your actions to make each other happy. When she’s not happy you’re responsible for it. When you’re not happy she’s responsible for it. But you’re also both responsible to listen to each other and understand why that is.
Love isn’t about blaming each other. It’s about finding the courage to talk about problems without casting blame. It’s about expressing our needs without pushing our partner away. That’s the king you should be and the queen you deserve!
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