Do you know how I can immediately tell if a man won’t get back with his ex-girlfriend? It’s a simple rule of thumb! He will fail if his main goal of re-attracting his ex is to satisfy his addiction-like co-dependency so he feels better about himself. That’s not the right way to get an ex back!
The honest truth is that if you weren’t begging like crazy, your ex is bound to eventually reach out to you and test the waters to see if she should give your relationship another try. It’ll happen all by itself if you don’t mess up too much. However, if you are obsessed with getting her back but spend no time reflecting on why you actually broke up and how to fix the underlying issue that caused the breakup, then she will run away faster than you can say the word “Ex!“
After a breakup, her attraction is like a tiny spark! It is up to you to turn that spark back into a flame! If she sees that you haven’t changed and you haven’t learned anything about how to communicate better with her, then that spark is going to die, and instead, she’ll go ablaze for another man who gives her the warmth and security she craves.
So stop focusing on wanting your ex back and start focusing on why she left in the first place.
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