If you still struggle with talking to beautiful women and approaching your dream woman, then it might be because you lack an important ingredient for dating success: The survival of a risk.
I bet you are afraid to approach and meet attractive women because it poses a risk. Unfortunately, confidence is the result of surviving risks. Women are like the waves of the ocean. A beginner surfer who has never stepped a foot on a surfboard will immediately be overwhelmed by a three-meter wave, whereas a one-meter wave might be possible to tame. But even a beginner is going to survive the three-meter wave and gain a new perspective that his fears are over-exaggerated.
If you want to be successful with women and become confident at all times, then you have to take risks and learn that you’re going to survive rejection. Being rejected by an average-looking woman is very similar to rejection by an absolute top model. If you want to build up confidence, approach women to get used to the survival of a risk.
Those who repeat succeed! Kings who win with women learned that taming a tall model is just like taming the waves. Over time, you’ll learn that it doesn’t kill you! So get ready to ride those waves!
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