If you’re dating a woman with the same flaws twice in a row then there’s a danger of not making progress with your dating and life choices.
There’s nothing wrong with dating a flawed woman. There are women with anxiety, insecurities, depression, jealousy, and other imperfections. These flaws don’t mean that you shouldn’t date her. Finding a flawless woman is near impossible. We all have our weaknesses. However, if you’re dating the same woman with the same flaws twice, it signals to you that you still have room for growth and that you live in your comfort zone.
If your last relationship didn’t work out because of the same flaws that you’re experiencing now, have you learned anything from your last relationship? Or are you seeking what feels familiar and comfortable?
Growth doesn’t happen inside of your comfort zone! Over time, you should raise your dating standards and date women who are out of your comfort zone. Not because there’s something wrong with the last woman you’ve dated, but because you deserve to learn and grow, just as your dream woman deserves the same.
Challenge yourself to date a woman who has outgrown the flaws you’ve experienced in the past. Give both of you a chance to grow even further and step out of your comfort zones. You’re a king, so always choose a queen who wants to climb to new heights!
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
Once you have this new mindset, you literally start attracting breathtaking women everywhere you go without having to lift a finger.
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