If you want to get back with your ex-girlfriend, then you might think that the hardest part is for her to reach out to you and staying consistent with the no contact rule, but the truth is the real challenge only begins when you go on dates again and spend quality time together!
Sometimes I see men who think that they are fully in control of their emotions and they believe that meeting up with her won’t be a problem, only for them to be extremely emotional and needy once they meet up.
Whether you are already fully in control or not, it’s important not to relapse and become weak when you spend time with your ex. The crucial thing she wants to see is whether you have your shit together and if you’re going to provide security. It’s all about re-establishing trust because a woman who trusts discovers her lust.
Once she sees you being emotional rather than being without worry, she will lose attraction and she may turn to another man who’s not feeling insecure around her. This is why you should detach from the outcome with your ex and simply treat any future dates as an opportunity to have fun.
Don’t get attached to the need of convincing her to get back together. It’s all about making her feel comfortable and for that, you need to enjoy your time with her, not overthink every second that you spend with her!
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