She is so gorgeous! I can’t wait to see her! Damn, I don’t want to work! I’d rather spend time with her! I haven’t seen her for three days! This sucks! If you have some thoughts along those lines, there’s a chance that you’ve been severely deprived of the attention of beautiful women who you find attractive. Whether this is because of a busy work schedule, isolation, depression, or whatever other reasons, the bottom line is you should recognize that whenever you are in such a heightened state of excitement, you are very likely to make impulsive dating decisions!
It is tempting to quickly commit to a woman who excites you because you’re not used to feeling emotional highs anymore. I’m excited for you to date and be with incredible women! Just be careful that you are not seeing your dating world through rose-tinted glasses! Nobody is perfect! Not even the women who excite you the most.
If you’re on Cloud 9, make sure that you take enough time to get to know her a little bit longer than you’d like. Instead of rushing a relationship, give yourself a few more weeks to get to know her more so you’ll make solid dating decisions.
Finding a queen doesn’t need to be a sprint and being in a relationship is a marathon, so make sure it’s built on a solid foundation.
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
Once you have this new mindset, you literally start attracting breathtaking women everywhere you go without having to lift a finger.
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