If your ex broke up with you, it is tempting to pour your heart out on paper and let her know how much she means to you through voices messages, letters, or even in person. When you miss her and what you had, you realize how much you truly loved her and you finally see your mistakes that you shrugged under the rug.
You know your failure to confidently address the problems in your relationship are a big reason why it failed. You wish you could undo your fuckups that led to this, don’t you?! And you want to tell her how you regret all of it! She needs to see that you made a mistake, but don’t overdo it. If you go from stoic guy who never talked about his feelings, to emotional wreck who won’t talk about anything else, she willthink that you are desperate and that you can’t process your emotions without losing your shit! Don’t overdo it when you hold yourself accountable!
When you meet up, you shouldn’t focus on all your weaknesses and your regrets! Focus on how you found strength and show her that you have learned and grown from your mistakes. Show that you rebuilt yourself into a better man! Once she sees that, she will be into you and she won’t need any further apologies because actions speak louder than words!
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