Every man who wants his ex back needs to swallow the harsh truth that your ex is taking you for granted if she isn’t reaching out. It is very scary for a woman to reach out to you after a breakup but if she truly cares about you, she is going to take the leap and take the first step towards you. She knows that rejecting you and leaving your relationship behind has hurt you a lot. This is why when she gets in touch, it shows that she cares enough about you to get over her fears or her ego.
An ex who doesn’t take you for granted and misses what you had is going to message you for any made-up reason that she could think of. She saw you walking down the street. She needs advice about your old dog. She’ll share any nostalgic memory with you. It doesn’t really matter what it is.
She will find a reason to reach out to you because you matter to her. An ex who reaches out recognizes that while you weren’t perfect, deep down she can see that you are a king and she wants to be in your kingdom. An ex who doesn’t, thinks that she is above you. She is the queen who rules above all else. But that’s not how relationships work.
You’re a king and your woman is a queen. And together you sit on the throne at eye level. If she thinks you are below her and won’t reach out to you because she takes you for granted — move on!
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