If you’re dating a woman, everything is fine, but she only wants to keep things casual but you’d like more… What should you do? Should you stay friends with benefits in the hopes to turn it into a relationship in the future? Or can you just turn your feelings off and agree on keeping it casual? The truth is that it’s not realistic that you can just keep on being friends with benefits without becoming attached to the woman you’re dating.
You can tell yourself as much as you want that you’re not going to catch more feelings for her but the harsh pill to swallow is that you’re only going to hurt yourself in the long run if you stay with a woman who wants to keep things casual when you don’t want it.
There are plenty of amazing women out there who will give you exactly what you want. You should look for another woman with whom getting attached to doesn’t feel like a stab in the back. The only time a casual friends-with-benefit situation can work out is if you have clear intentions of never long-term dating. But even then it is incredibly likely to fall in love with the woman you’re with every day.
So instead of prolonging a futile situation with a woman who doesn’t want you for the long term, look for a woman who truly longs for you. Moving on from your current situationship will not be easy, but eventually, you will be incredibly happy to wake up next to a woman who knows that you’re a king and that you’re worth waking up next to every single day.
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
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