Sometimes you meet the perfect woman, you get along just fine, and everything seems perfect, but then she drops the bomb: “I’m sorry. I’m not ready for a relationship yet because I just had a breakup.“
What do you do with such terrible timing? When everything’s picture-perfect, you have the same values, similar vibes, and everything is effortless. The only problem is that she is still healing from heartbreak. The answer is simple but probably not satisfying to you: You gotta give her time. Never bring up the relationship talk and certainly don’t ask if you’re exclusive. On top of that, if she needs space, don’t force it. Don’t pressure her into anything she’s not ready for. A woman who trusts discovers her lust.
It is difficult for a woman to let another man into her heart after it’s been broken. She no longer trusts that you or any other man can give her feelings of safety. The only thing you need to focus on is to make sure she feels happy and safe around you, which means simply focus on having a good time.
Have fun, make out when she wants to, show her that it’s safe to be with you, and eventually she’ll change her mind and wants to be in a relationship.
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
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