Are you excited because you know the ex of the woman you’re dating sucked and so you think your chances with her are much higher because of it? You should not be excited about this because if she’s been in a bad relationship, or worse, multiple ones, then it’s a sign of her lacking standards! And that’s not a good thing because on average, women have far higher standards for their men, than the other way around!
You wanna be with a woman who consciously chooses quality men. If her exes are substandard, that should tell you something about her, because unhealthy people who don’t know how to love, attract partners who accept their behaviors! You are a king and I know you want to be exceptional and want to be with an absolute queen, who also wants to be at her best! Don’t just dump women who had a shitty ex, but if that was the case, pay close attention to how she communicates, how she approaches conflict, and other unhealthy relationship habits.
If she’s willing to grow, then it’s all good and you can grow together. But for that, she has to be a queen! So make sure you’re both aligned on your goals and how you’ll build a thriving relationship.
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