Here’s the simplest way to figure out if you met a great woman, but you don’t know if she’s interested in you: Count to three!
Three times is the number that you give her as a maximum qualifier to meet up. Honestly, even the second time she flakes or doesn’t commit to a date should already be enough for you to say “I’m out of here and I’ll find a woman who will fuck my brains out!“
To make this rule of thumb work, you have to follow one more principle: Stop giving a shit! Getting rejected by a woman three times in a row would hurt even the most emotionally resilient men. The secret to not letting it get to you is to not care about the woman you’re interested in by always dating other women until you get a clear signal that she’s into you.
What are the signals? When you are going on dates and you’re moving forward with physical intimacy. Asking a woman out is like throwing out some bait. If she doesn’t take it, another woman will, and if another one takes the bait, you won’t care that you didn’t catch her! You’ll be too busy eating that delicious woman who craved what you had to offer! So the secret to not being bothered by rejection is to always eat healthily ;)!
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
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