A lot of men have the misconception that in order to make a woman chase you, you have to do something very specific to turn her on. Say this. Do that. Dress like this. But the harsh truth is that with dating and women, most of the time the simplest way to make a woman chase you is to simply do nothing.
The more you take action, the more she can tell that you need to prove to her that she should date you. If that’s the case, she knows that she got you wrapped around her finger and a woman who can deceive is going to leave! A woman doesn’t want to be able to control you. Rather, she wants the thrill of not being quite certain whether she can actually fully control you.
Once you stop trying to prove yourself to a woman, you will begin to see that she will chase you all by herself because she can feel that you are different from those men who feel the need to prove themselves. Action for attraction rarely leads to satisfaction! If you want her to chase you, don’t focus on what actions to take to gain her attention! Focus on the actions you can take to direct your own attention to the things that matter the most to you.
Become scarce to women by simply being busy with your own purpose and every woman will recognize that you’re a king who values his own time more than a woman’s attention. And any woman is going to go crazy for you!
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
Once you have this new mindset, you literally start attracting breathtaking women everywhere you go without having to lift a finger.
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