Are you stuck in the following pattern that keeps on repeating over and over? She gives you hope that she cares about you and tells you everything you want to hear, then she starts becoming more and more negative and critical, until one day she disappears out of nowhere, and worse she might already have a new man?!
If this has happened or keeps on happening, then you’re stuck in a narcissistic abuse pattern. These three stages are called idealization, devalue and discard. If you went through this, then you have to let go and give up on the woman you love. When she behaves so integrity-less and inhumanely, your brain gets hooked on any positive moment with her.
It’s human nature to tell yourself that she cares about you and simply doesn’t know how to express it properly, but the truth is that when she idolizes you and shows you renewed interest in you, she’s not trying to break through her defenses! She’s using you until she begins to criticize and discard you again.
Don’t fall for it! There’s nothing human about this! She’s a tyrant and you deserve a queen because you are a king!
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