I’m sure you’ve heard of the saying “dating is a numbers game,” but what does that mean for you as a man trying to find your dream woman?! It means that the fewer women you’re dating, the worse your outcomes will be. I bet you know the struggle of being rejected by a woman and then being demotivated, depressed, or hurt like crazy! The worst thing you can do in such a moment is being hung up on a woman who doesn’t want you, because there are plenty women out there who absolutely adore you and spend every minute thinking about you. This is why you should always date more than one woman at a time!
Always keep your options open until you are sure that you’re making progress with a woman. The worst thing you can do is setting your expectations way too high only to get disappointed when she loses interest and moves on to another man! Rejection doesn’t hurt as much if you talk to multiple women at the same time.
Most men make the mistake that they understand that it’s a numbers game, but they always go from one woman to another in sequence. This drastically increases the time it takes to find your dream woman and on top of it, it also makes dating lonely as hell! Rejection hurts much less if you know another woman who’s already interested in you.
So always date in parallel, and be respectful and honest while you do so. And of course, don’t lead any women on because we are kings, not users!
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