Breakup real talk: No healthy woman is ever going to leave you if she’s happy and in love with you. Most breakups happen either because she was a toxic woman, or because she wasn’t feeling heard, valued, validated, appreciated, and so on. If she wasn’t a she-belongs-to-the-streets level narcissist, then take a look in the mirror.
Your dating patterns repeat until you change the one thing that didn’t make her happy. Did you not make time? Did you not listen to her problems? Did you not pay attention to sexual needs? Did you get too defensive about her requests? Whatever it was… If that unmet need was common sense, then you will get the same outcome with other women — unless you date a woman with low standards.
And since you’re a king, you should have high expectations. Never settle for a woman who wants her man to be substandard. Because a woman like this has her own issues. Take the time to reflect on who was at fault and if it was your responsibility, then there’s no shame in it. Facing your shortcomings isn’t weakness. It’s proof that you are a king who stands out from the crowd of men who never change. So be a king and never stand still.
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