There are many reasons why you and your ex may have broken up, but most of the time, independent of the reason, she wants to have space and time for herself so she can discover if being without you is the right choice. So don’t urge her on making a decision and asking whether she will come back.
Even if your ex reaches out to you for small reasons when she clearly could have talked to someone else, do not ask her if she’s going to come back. Your ex doesn’t have faith in you or the relationship when she says that she wants space and the secret to any woman’s heart is trust. A woman who trusts discovers her lust. Through no contact and giving her time to think about you and miss you, she will realize that the grass is not greener on the other side, and life without you is not as great as she expected.
By asking her if she’s coming back you’re putting all the power back in the palm of her hand! It’s strange but she wants to see that you can live without her! She wants to see that you are a king, the kind of man she can trust, because she sees herself as a queen and she won’t agree to rekindle the relationship unless it was her idea.
Instead of asking if she will come back, simply invite her out on dates without any pressure, expectations, and help her feel comfortable around you. Presence leads to passion!
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