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Shit testing alert! Got an ex girlfriend testing you? Gone cold after making out…?!

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If you have finally made progress with your ex-girlfriend and even met up with her and made out, but then she friendzones you or says that she needs space, then it might be a shittest. If there’s one woman who is most likely to test your strength, it is no doubt going to be your ex.  You’d think that after making out, your chances of getting back together are already incredibly high, don’t you? Yes, that’s actually correct! Physical intimacy is crucial to get back together with your ex. Based on studies, 88% of all couples who had sex get back together.

If your ex goes cold after making out, it shows you that she’s not fully convinced that you have what it takes to make her happy. If she throws a shittest at you and pulls back, then don’t let it get to you, and don’t show her that it makes you feel uneasy. Whether it’s a deliberate shittest or she’s still subconsciously unsure about getting back with you, prove to her that she can trust you. Give a clear sign that when she pulls back, it no longer scares you.

Show her that you have redefined yourself and that you are happy to live with her but do not need her to keep on living a happy life.

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