If you’re still very inexperienced with dating then here’s a crucial dating tip for you: Stop falling in love with women. It’s dangerous! Why? Because falling in love implies that you are not in control. Instead, you’re going with the flow and you’re a 100% driven by your emotion. Obviously, developing an intense appreciation for a woman is an incredible feeling. If the woman you’re in love with is special, then it is normal to feel elated when you spend time with her.
But only dating with your irrational side is dangerous! When you only think with your heart and dick, it is easy to fall for a woman too soon or not objectively evaluate if she’s truly the type of woman who will make you happy for the rest of your life. This is a form of premature Oneitis where you become unaware of how incredible other women are and that many of them might actually be better for you.
Always date multiple women and never commit to a relationship too soon and certainly don’t push for it. Spending time with more than one woman at a time will help you gain perspective on whether or not you’re choosing the right woman. You’re a king and you deserve a queen. Make sure that you date the kind of glorious woman who outshines them all. So date rationally and instead of falling in love, choose to be in love.
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