What’s one of the biggest indicators that you’re doing no contact wrong with your ex-girlfriend? It’s overthinking! If you’re constantly thinking about your ex and over-analyzing every single action that you took, are taking, or are going to take in order to win her back, then you have almost no chance to get her back!
Constantly playing strategy games in your head with your ex and asking yourself how she’s going to react to this or that, or wondering if she’s thinking about you, is going to kill her attraction for you!
If you do that, you’ve essentially become a little puppy begging for its owner’s attention! If your ex doesn’t want to give you attention or is too busy to do so, she may only give it to you based on a whim and if she sees you begging for treats, aka attention, she may get turned off.
You’re not a little puppy! You are a lion! You are a freaking king! So don’t be a doormat with your ex! Be dominant! You don’t demand attention from her.
You don’t even need it! You’re going your own way and you will find happiness with or without her. Once she realizes that, she will start to give you attention even though you aren’t constantly over-analyzing everything. That is the power of walking away!
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