Being successful with women is kind of a paradox. On one hand, it’s crucial to make a move, have confidence, and show that you’re not afraid to take action, and that you want her. It’s about proving that you’re a fearless king. Going unapologetically for what you want symbolizes confidence. But on the other side of the coin, patience with gorgeous women is also a virtue. Many guys do not have a shred of confidence
when it comes to dating women who they find smoking hot. They lose their shit as soon as they feel that they’re not making progress because she is turned off.
Patience is a virtue. Recognize that sometimes it’s normal to stand still, or even be going backwards. Be patient and recognize that it’s meaningless. Women always do the choosing. If you are a king and you show up with strength, courage, and dignity, any woman will see your worth and she’ll choose you. Don’t rush and show that you’re not intimidated if she won’t fall for you immediately, and then she’ll go crazy for your emotional self-control.
There’s no point in rushing. Most women have a warm-up period where they need to get used to you and learn that spending time with you is pleasurable, so don’t rush. You got this!
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
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