Getting an ex back is tricky because it has to be her choice! When you try to influence her, you’ll make her feel as if she’s losing the freedom to make the right choice for herself. You can’t apply any pressure or you’ll create the opposite outcome of what you want! If you try to pressure her on getting back together and she told you that you’re never getting back together, don’t panic and take it as she says! But also understand that what she says right now can change in the future.
The men most successful with getting back together with an ex are those who don’t obsess over this truth. If you want your ex back, accept that for now she’s done with you and walk away. Don’t chase her. Don’t focus your attention on her. Show her that if this was her final answer, she only has one possible choice: She needs to live without you! No more being friends. No more favors. No more emotional support. Disappear from her life so she has to feel the weight of her decision and never look back!
If she changes her mind in the future and realizes that her decision was wrong, she would choose on her own accord that she wants to undo the damage. Instead of you working to get her back, she is going to work hard to get you back!
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