Here’s one of the funniest dating contradictions any man should know: If you want to have great sex in abundance with women, all you have to do is not be invested in women… That’s right! Ironically, the less you give a shit about sleeping with women, the more likely it is that she’s going to want to sleep with you! Why? Because there’s something unique and mysterious that women can’t put their fingers around.
Most men are incredibly insecure, needy, and crave the attention of women. That doesn’t exactly scream trustworthiness. But trust is the key ingredient needed to seduce any woman. A woman who trusts discovers her lust, and if she can deceive, she will leave. She gets turned off if she knows that she can manipulate you because you are way too much into her.
Women want the strongest men they can find. They want someone who can protect them and someone who they can trust with their deepest needs and desires. Once she trusts you, you’ll be attractive like a magnet and she’ll want to have sex with you. She’ll want to go on dates and figure out why aren’t you as needy as other guys.
She can tell that you are a king because you are mentally abundant and while her presence is a gift to you, you’ll be happy all by yourself. So don’t be too emotionally invested through developing an abundance mindset in life!
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Hi, I’m Andy Graziosi. I help men unleash their confidence and reach their fullest potential. My science-backed philosophy is: “The king is already a winner.” — Amazing women are already attracted to you. All a king has to do is use this attraction to his advantage.
You can date your dream woman. I help you develop & maintain a strong masculine frame. This helps you overcome your dating insecurities & become a force to be reckoned with.
In Unleash The King Within, you’ll learn the mindsets, principles, and mental models to not only to gain confidence around women, but also to tap deep into it, and to take advantage of it to create the life that you want to live together with your dream woman.
The key here is the mindset shift that this book will install. It’s a new lens that clarifies and helps you see the king within you who is always surrounded by women who want to be with him.
Once you have this new mindset, you literally start attracting breathtaking women everywhere you go without having to lift a finger.
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