When you talk to a great woman at a party or bar and added her on social media — what should you do next? Message her the next day? Compliment her? Crack a joke? Most of the time you shouldn’t do any of those things. You already made your first move by approaching her. Making another move will only work if she’s highly attracted to you. It is much more likely that she still needs to make up her mind about you. It is better to let her come to you.
Be socially abundant with friends and women. Social media platforms are great for getting conversations started and if she was interested enough in you to connect with you on social networks, then she will definitely use the opportunity to get to know you and talk to you when she sees something on your feed or stories that intrigues her.
Dating is like a game of tennis — back and forth. You made a move. Now it’s her turn. When she makes a move, it’s your turn. You already hit on her. You’ve shown her that you think she’s amazing. But does she think that you are a king? Let her show you! She needs to signal to you that she’s into you. Once she is, set up a date and hang out with her. As soon as she makes a move, you’ll know that she wants to spend more time with you and you’re in the best position to ask her out.
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