How to Heal from INFIDELITY? Accept that she BELONGS to the Streets!

Let’s talk about infidelity, healing from an unfaithful woman, and the reality that we sometimes need to accept that sometimes you can’t make sense of a woman who cheats. Sometimes cheating can be forgiven if the person feels bad about it. But some women are just bad women. And trying to make sense of it will…

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Are there ANY EXCEPTIONS to the No Contact Rule to REACH OUT to her?

Are there ANY EXCEPTIONS to the No Contact Rule to REACH OUT to her?

Let’s talk about exceptions to the no contact rule. Should you be reaching out to your ex? Is there a reason when you should be reaching out to your ex? The truth is you should almost always do no contact. There are only very limited reasons why you wouldn’t do it or break no contact…

A Test From Your Ex GF — Is my Ex TESTING ME to see if I’ve Changed?

A Test From Your Ex GF — Is my Ex TESTING ME to see if I’ve Changed?

Let’s talk about whether an ex is testing you to see if you’ve changed. When you want to get an ex back, typically you want to get her back because you screwed up. Maybe you’ve been begging, you’ve been a little bit needy. And so she wants to see that you’re no longer needy and…

DON’T get back with your ex if she made NO Amends! Find a NEW Girlfriend!

DON’T get back with your ex if she made NO Amends! Find a NEW Girlfriend!

Let’s talk about not getting back with an ex if she hasn’t made any amends. Often, you have messy breakups and you want your exes back. It’s fine to get back with an ex if both of you fix your issues. But if your ex comes back, she also screwed up but she doesn’t take accountability…

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Attraction to get an ex back & to secude a woman: Be your best self!

Attraction to get an ex back & to secude a woman: Be your best self!

Wanting an ex back, getting a girl back that you turned off, or dating a brand new woman… It’s all based on the same concept: Attraction. You need to prove that you’re an outstanding man. She wants a king because she sees herself as a queen and she won’t settle for anything less than a…

Some Women CANNOT be Trusted! AVOID Women Without Integrity!

Some Women CANNOT be Trusted! AVOID Women Without Integrity!

Let’s talk about the type of women that you shouldn’t be dating. Sometimes you date women who are low integrity, with double standards. They want to be treated nicely but they don’t want to return the favor to you. Respect yourself. I am all for making relationships work but sometimes, if the woman is awful…

Golden ratio of text replies! Too much texting lowers attraction! Invite her out!

Golden ratio of text replies! Too much texting lowers attraction! Invite her out!

When talking to women through chat, always make sure that you keep your texting game short and to the point. Don’t send long text messages because it turns women off. Sounds counterintuitive but here’s two reasons why. Number one: Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. It’s been studied that women are more…

Congruence TURN OFFs in Women Too NERVOUS on a Date as a Guy

Congruence TURN OFFs in Women Too NERVOUS on a Date as a Guy

Let’s talk about insecurity with women when going on dates, especially when you’re still relatively young or inexperienced with dating. You lack confidence around woman. You don’t feel secure. And so, you act and talk insecure. And then of course, a woman can feel this insecurity and as a result, doesn’t feel secure with you…

Will She FORGIVE Me? Using No Contact Rule after I was NEEDY

Will She FORGIVE Me? Using No Contact Rule after I was NEEDY

Let’s talk about no contact, breakups, and earning the forgiveness of your ex-girlfriend, for example, if you have been too insecure before the end of the breakup and this caused problems, and eventually lead to the breakup. Which then makes you fear that she is never going to forgive you, which most of the time…

You got her number?! What to say to a girl after you get her number?

You got her number?! What to say to a girl after you get her number?

When you talk to a great woman at a party or bar and added her on social media — what should you do next? Message her the next day? Compliment her? Crack a joke? Most of the time you shouldn’t do any of those things. You already made your first move by approaching her. Making another move…

Expressing your love to her never works to get your ex back!

Expressing your love to her never works to get your ex back!

The clean slate letter. A long voice message or video explaining your regrets. Talking to her parents to figure out how you can fix it… All extreme expressions of love never work to get an ex back. The harder you try, the stronger she’s turned off. If you’re doing this stuff, then you realize how…

The male mistake of falling in love too fast & getting oneitis!

The male mistake of falling in love too fast & getting oneitis!

If you’re still very inexperienced with dating then here’s a crucial dating tip for you: Stop falling in love with women. It’s dangerous! Why? Because falling in love implies that you are not in control. Instead, you’re going with the flow and you’re a 100% driven by your emotion. Obviously, developing an intense appreciation for…

When she notices you make a move on her & just approach her FAST!

When she notices you make a move on her & just approach her FAST!

If you’d ask a woman what one of the worst things is that happens in a club, she’ll definitely bring up how annoying it is to see an endless line of men who stare at her non-stop without talking to her. The negative effect of staring at a woman for too long is so strong…

How to date a high value woman? Don’t focus on incredible women, be incredible!

How to date a high value woman? Don’t focus on incredible women, be incredible!

If you want to date a unique and special woman who’s smart, successful, and smoking hot, then you gotta have the right priorities in life. To be with a woman who will repeatedly blow your mind and more, don’t make the common mistake of focusing on dating an incredible woman. Instead, the secret to dating such…

Respect her boundaries! Stop contacting your ex! Don’t push her away even more!

Respect her boundaries! Stop contacting your ex! Don’t push her away even more!

Acceptance is always key! Winning with women, finding a better job, and getting an ex back… If she doesn’t want to get back together, then stop and accept that it’s not working out. Repeating the same mistakes only results in more unsatisfying outcomes. When she is done, she’s done for the moment. Be real with…

FWB Rules: Turn friends with benefits into more if she just wants casual?!

FWB Rules: Turn friends with benefits into more if she just wants casual?!

If you’re dating a woman, everything is fine, but she only wants to keep things casual but you’d like more… What should you do? Should you stay friends with benefits in the hopes to turn it into a relationship in the future? Or can you just turn your feelings off and agree on keeping it casual…

My ex doesn’t want to talk to me?! Look in the mirror!

My ex doesn’t want to talk to me?! Look in the mirror!

Breakup real talk: No healthy woman is ever going to leave you if she’s happy and in love with you. Most breakups happen either because she was a toxic woman, or because she wasn’t feeling heard, valued, validated, appreciated, and so on. If she wasn’t a she-belongs-to-the-streets level narcissist, then take a look in the mirror…